Stress, WAW and life in general II

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Update:


Ok. It was hard to not defend. Even now I'm struggling with it.

When we got home, W wanted to discuss R with me. <sigh> She was telling me that some days she wants to run over and put her arms around me while at other times she wants to leave the house and relationship. She made it a point to tell me that "if we're still together in the summer..." and stuff like that. I reminded her that I am madly in love with her and have been since the day we met. She told me that sometimes she isn't sure how to come back. I asked if I could help with that. She said no.

I sensed that she wants to come back, but isn't quite sure of that or if I want her to come back. Or if I do want her to come back, will things go back to the way they were. I can say an emphatic no to that last

Not defending = good. I'm sure that made a big impression on her. Good job.

And it is hard to 'come back' after stepping away in any capacity. I moved out and it was not the move back in that was difficult but the gamble ~~~ can we do things better this time? Will we do things better this time? And what will it take? Big decision. Tougher still b/c at this point in the R, she knows more about you (and you her) than on your wedding day. Much more to weigh before jumping all in...again. Be patient with each other.


You surely have come a long way, AJ.
Cheers ~