KJ,
I'm glad to hear about the connection between you and H recently. What did he say that created hope for you?

Does he know how you feel about the OW, and that you would like to work on solving your problems without her in the picture?

Your H's numbness possibly means that he's not in touch with his feelings.

CL

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching