Originally Posted By: AFWAW

Oh so true, it is nice to have an outside perspective as they can be less emotional and more objective as it is not happening to you. Keep getting support from those who will give it, just don't abuse it.


You are right about being careful not to abuse it. I've been building my network very slowly/carefully. I've got a married couple that is retired (I count them as 2 since the husband and wife are so different and when I talk on the phone, it's usually just one of them), a former co-worker, a person at work (who unfortunately works for me, but she is a WAW so its nice to get that perspective), a long time friend that is in DC and now my long time friend and his wife that I just came back from visiting in CT. I basically call each of them once every week or so. I allows me to get some support almost everyday.

And of course the people on this board.

Thanks for everyone time!


Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13