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[markhaving probs]

J,

Thanks for the advice, I will take your post onboard and put those suggestions into practice.

I do really think my situation is beyond salvage because I never seen her so focused and determined to get a divorce. I have not seen barely any evidence of her wavering, in fact she re-iterates what she is doing and then tries to encourage me into a discussion/argument about the divorce not going quick enough.

She is going to house sit for some friends of ours on the week commencing the 6th April. during this time I will be able to move my things into my friends house which will be gut wrenching. I therefore, have just under two weeks to show the changes I have made will stick, which in her current moood will not be long enough.

How can I try to reconcile/DR when we are living apart? I really do not wish to leave, but this is the best thing to do at the moment considering the atmosphere in the house at the moment as I do not want the children to suffer any more.

I do think she is involved in some sort of EA/PA but I have not found any proof other than no physical contact, seperate sleeping arrangements, the odd night stay over etc. I believe she is being 'guided' by someone but I guess I have to try and put that out of my mind as it really gets to me. I wonder by me not being in the house and having the children every other weekend says to her 'out of sight, out of mind' and it may also give her the space she needs to do whatever she is doing. As I have said I cannot prove this is the case, but I might be just paranoid. Could be a MLC?