This facsimile communication is intended to inform you that a heated dispute arose last night initiated by the father of S8 informing me of his opinion that there was a need to address some seeming problems with which S8 was suffering as judged by his father.
Due the father's absence from Court yesterday at the time of the Court meeting March 12, 2009 and thus having no direct first hand access to advice of both sources of Counsel, which my L and LG proferred there and then, advising a meeting be arranged with both parents and LG. At the earliest possible convenience, it is my intention to alert you to this situation at once, to protect the welfare and best interests of both children.
FIB, S8's father had judged that S8 needs counseling, an opinion with which I agree, but to have excluded me from from his definitive opinion which he asserts resulted from his discussion with his Counsel, is unsatisfactory for me as S8's mother.
I feel that we can all agree it does no one involved in a marital dispute to have one parent cast derision and blame on the shoulders of the other and for our family at this jointure and as a result of this unbalanced blame game, it is becoming increasingly clear that both parents should meet with Ms.LG, Legal Guardian, at which time firm guidelines be established with the welfare of both children in mind.
I, as their mother, ask that I be included in all discussions regarding these children.
More to the point, any diagnosis about S8 and any counseling needs, must come from a professional trained in child psychology, his father's medical opinion being secondary to that of one trained in this field.
Thank you for your kind attention to this matter.
Very truly yours,
It is after this letter that the LG wrote a letter asking her to stop writing letters.
This morning, I asked her to stop wearing VS short shorts in front of the kids. She wasn't happy about this:
W: Now you are stooping low.
Me: I am not writing any letters...this is between you and me...they are too provocative and I am asking you to stop wearing them in front of the kids.
Now, I am waiting to see what she does to punish me for THIS.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
