Need Help handling affair thats still going on

[kjensen]

Spoke to husband this morning. He had just talked to the OW last Thursday (she knocked on his door)and restarted the affair 3/21. We had the best day between us communication-wise last Thursday so I was starting to get hopeful, especially after my DB phone counseling 3/20! I feel like I started heaing only to be hurt worse. My husband says he's numb. He's made no indication of whether he's continuing the affair or not. I asked him how he felt when he was with the OW and he said "good, happy". So I guess he needs to feel good and happy when he's with me. It's harder now since I hurt more now.