I have to tell you that your post has really shaken me, on this awful gloomy Monday morning in IA.
I am so confused right now.......
In talking with some friends from Divorce Care class, one gal says that our finances will be considered separate starting the day that we separated - he moved out.
But it sounds like your situation is more similar to mine and so I believe what you say.
I have to do some thinking about this......(and praying)
Just one thing (gotta go to work, I'm late already) Just because I'm going to a lawyer doesn't mean I'm getting divorced, but doesn't it mean that I have to file? I don't think I am ready to file. I do not want this D.
And, for sure I will be responsible for his debt if I get a lawyer - because if H gets a lawyer then that lawyer will make sure that I am responsible for half.
But if we can agree on the divorce without a lawyer, then H may not try to make me be responsible for his debt.
How does your H afford a lawyer if he is broke? I have no idea how mine will. He doesn't work- all he does is take out loans to go to school.
Last edited by Belle; 03/23/0902:08 PM.
M:36 H:36 M 3 Y T 8 Y No kids Bomb 6/30/08 PA I filed 9/29/09 D final 1/22/2010
