You certainly don't have to justify your actions on this board.
Each of us knows what is right in our own situations.
What is good for one may not be good for another.
I would have done exactly what you did.
My youngest gets very nervous when I am with OW, because she knows OW does not like me.
I don't wish to put her through that.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11