Good story Sara and something we all can learn from. We get so caught up in the image of marriage being that we do everything together and if one is unhappy we think its becasue of us when in fact its just about the activity. Loved how you guys laughed it off. Thanks for sharing. And I don't think this was any sign of trouble in your M -- it's showed two people in a R with different interest and different tolerance level. I will try to remember this story in my R, if we are able to work things out.