I received a phone call just before 8:00am. She is back from her trip. She said she had a meeting at 3:00pm today, so she was picking the kids up from daycare this morning to spend some time with them. She said she would take them back there this afternoon on her way in to work.

I said ok that will work out. She asked "did you think anymore about letting me have them on Tuesday?" (we already discussed this a few days ago and I said no.)

I told her no I will have them Tuesday. She said. "You know I miss them all your doing is trying to hurt me." I said, I have been very helpful in the past when it comes to working around your schedule. This isn't about you right now, everything always seems to be about you. You choose to have things this way. You can be upset with me for no reason all you like, that is your choice too.

She then began to raise her voice and still kept trying to play like the victim. I told her I have to go now I had a meeting to attend at 8:00. She tried again. I said I'm sorry I have to go. "Fine Bye."


Don't stand still.