Hi Dr,

Good to hear from you. I'm glad somebody else experiences the apparant coldness, non-commital reaction of their WAW. I must admit I do not get hardly any positivity or thanks from her at the moment. I tend to do alot of the ironing these days and I leave it in a neat pile for her to put away. I get the odd begrudgingly 'thank you' but only on rare occasions. The decorating/carpentryDIY work I do NEVER gets praised, but I rise above it and say to my self I am doing this for me and the children. This is a 180 for me and I must keep the changes going, which I will for the children, me and the future, whatever that may be, but I pray reconcilliation is possible even though I signed the divorce petition papers last week. I must stay positive.

Last edited by markhaving probs; 03/23/09 12:27 PM.

Bomb dropped: 19/12/08
Me:48
WAW:41
D:10
S:6
Married: 15 years