WAW - Very confused and devestated - pt 5

[confusedinpa]

"I would love it if you come" is an invitation in my books. She is just pulling out stuff to give you a hard time.

Keep doing the 180s man, you can go dark later if necessary.

Assignment for you:

Write a list of things she is saying and doing that you don't like and/or disagree with.

That's actually a tough question. The biggest thing that's she's done that I don't like and/or agree with is filing for a divorce

More recently, it's not sharing her feelings when they occur (my guess is she doesn't want to start a fight or get me angry). She seems to be finding/looking for reasons to hold onto her anger/hurt. This is making her act very selfish in moving forward with the divorce without consideration for the kids

Thanks for checking in Spellfire. When she hit me with the combos my wall held strong. I did appologize to her for making her feel like she wasn't invited but did tell her I felt I did.

I also appologize for making her feel that I told her like I wasn't discussing the trip like a concept with her (vs presenting it like a decision). I didn't get into the rational behind that as I purposely did it because I felt she would not go and was afraid she wouldn't let me take the kids.