Thanks Kalni - this might be an idea...

Although one of W's observations on me is that I'm a closed book so to be more mysterious wouldn't really be much of a 180 for me - the opposite on the other hand is which is what I've been - more predictable, doing what I say I'm going to do.

I see how that's not getting me anywhere though. I'm going to give some thought to pulling off both!

If I manage it I won't know if I'm coming or going! LOL!

And to answer your Q - no W does not know what I'm doing all the time...she does see that I have some regular fixtures in my week, as much GAL stuff for me as I can manage to fit around my H-time. That is a 180 for me as I was pretty tardy about being proactive in that way.

Anyhow, need to get moving now, school run!

Best - GFI