(((Amy)))

Grr, I am so sorry to hear about your night. I understand completely about the lack of respect. That's what it boils down to for me too. The cheating, lying about it, flaunting it in front of his coworkers...it's just SO disrespectful.

I think you hit the nail on the head - he is actively rebelling against you, acting like a child. And polly is right - he pushed the button he knew would generate the biggest response. Not that that really helps with the emotion.

I'm not in a place to offer any advice right now, it would just be do as I say, not as I do. ;\) But please know that I'm thinking about you and I believe you will get through this trial and will be the better for it.

If you love somebody, set them free.
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