Boring days are great - I finally got basketball and cheerleading over with, and the kids seem to just want to swim this summer, so I might luck out. S6 is talking about T-ball, so we'll see. D8 just wants to do swim.
Next weekend will be busy, but after that, I'm taking like the next 5 weekends completely OFF!
We are going to see the Race to Witch Mountain movie tonight, then go to bed early!
Having a boring weekend over here too. Slept in today after a restless, mostly sleepless night. It's a gorgeous 72 degrees so I went for my walk, now syncing music to my new mp3 player. May head to Home Depot for a hedge trimmer to cut the ornamental grasses, but I'm kind of in the "I'm not going to live here so why should I care about the yardwork" frame of mind. We'll see what happens.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
Hope you had a great weekend. It was beautiful here - I'm sure it was there too since we're not too far apart.
I'm very serious about visiting Pilot Mountain for the hike. Maybe in mid-May? Or even my spring break in April if I don't visit relatives.
Have a great week!
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
{{{Silver}}} YOU just let me know and I will do it Most of my weekends are free, there may be one weekend a month I work, but, if they would happen to fall on the same, I would try to switch it out LET me know! It was a beautiful day, I should have spent more of it outside, but I love the nice weather! Though, I saw ants already outside of my house (argh)..
{{Pearl}} and {{JD}} yeah..boring day again today too..went to Barnes and Noble and Borders for a while, looked around and read some magazines, came home and made some spaghetti and garlic bread for dinner, and then spent some time talking to some friends online SO..nice and boring, which is good, cause I have to work all week for the most part :P
Tawnya
Me:39 H:40 D18/S12 M20/T21 Bomb 10/11/08 One Two Three Four
Okay, help me out and give me an update on the M.....please. Has H finally moved out and are you moving forward? It sounds like you are staying busy and GAL, but what about the status of the M?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
{{{Sandi}}} Aww..yeah..you probably have not even tried to wade thru all of my stuff here..LOLOL..can't say that I blame you!
Ok..so the status update for your benefit LOLOL..hub moved out the day after Valentine's Day (sweet eh?)..and we are working on the separation agreement, I wanted alimony for a lot longer than he is willing to do..so I"m really debating in my brain whether I want to fight him for that cause he will NOT do more than he says he will do, we went round and round about it a few weeks ago on the phone..so at that point I feel like what Amy said, I want to be divorced yesterday LOL! So yep...unfortunately since he didn't move out until Feb, that's when our "year" started, you have to be separated a year here in my state.
Yes I'm moving forward..have even been asked out on a "date"..sort of..LOL..I have not mentioned that, but a few people know about it already so I didn't really want to mention it LOL..but it was nice and he was 29 and, since I'm 39, it was a nice ego boost There was no "click" and it was definitely something I wasn't ready for, but it was a nice "stick my toe in the water" kind of thing...
{{{Sandi}}} thanks for asking and caring and I love ya!!
Tawnya
Me:39 H:40 D18/S12 M20/T21 Bomb 10/11/08 One Two Three Four
Man! Ex's sure can be jerks, can't they? Well, you get all that you can b/c you deserve it and probably need it......most of us would.
Yes, it always helps a gal to have a younger man interested in her.....LOL. That is the best ego shot that I know of when you are breaking up with your H! You must be quite the looker for a man that much younger to be interested in dating you! WOW! It would be interesting to know what your EX would think of that....LOL. Not that it matters.....but just interesting. You know how we women are.
I appreciate your update. I did try to dig through the post, but girl, you sure have a bunch on here! Miss Popularity!
Well, after spending three days in bed, I am feeling a bit better today and hope that this week will be a good one. I am going to try my best to "make" it a good one. I hope yours is a good one too.
Take care, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
{{{Sandi}}} Yeah..I just don't know how much of a fight I can put up monetarily and/or mentally, I just don't want to deal with him or it LOLOL..but we'll see what the lawyer says when I take it to him.
I DUNNO about the looker part..but thank you FUNNY enough, my friend said "man I would have loved for your hub to come driving thru the parking lot when you walked out with that guy" and my daughter said "daddy probably would have gotten out and punched him" and I replied "what with his girlfriend in the seat next to him?" LOLOL..anyway...yeah..it would be interesting to know but then I would be like "are you ridiculous responding to this in any way?" LOLOL..
Aww..thank you..I think Miss Yappy is probably more the case, but I'll take Miss Popularity
I am SOOOOO glad you are feeling better and I hope you are having a GREAT week my sweet friend!! It means so much that you are checking up on me
Tawnya
Me:39 H:40 D18/S12 M20/T21 Bomb 10/11/08 One Two Three Four
I appreciate your update. I did try to dig through the post, but girl, you sure have a bunch on here! Miss Popularity!
LOL!! Ain't that the truth!! Just cracked up reading that! I once tried to catch up on your sitch after 2 weeks of not reading.... MAN!! That took like 2 hours!!
So, I hadn't heard you were asked out on a date!! Guess it's not the video game store guy, right? But anyways, it's nice to feel you are still appealing to the opposite sex, isn't it? Does wonders for your PMA! I got a little dose today again, not a date, but just some genuine interest.
I tell ya, Sam, my two sweeites.....Tawnya and AmyM are something else! They are going to knock some socks off of some people....you just wait and see! I have never seen a picture of either of them, but I just know they are knock-outs! Any guy would be crazy not to break his neck to try to date either one of them. However, I realize they still have some stuff to work through.....but it always helps that ole ego when you hear a wolf whistle. I haven't heard one so long I think the wolves are gone from this part of the country!!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!