Hi amy - I can understand the anger and the frustration but I think MC is right. Last bastion of control. Having said that if you can hold off or minimise contact then go ahead and do it.
He is a disgusting pig for not respecting your wishes and giving you the respect you deserve. But your anger feeds him.
I would like to ask you to never raise your voice or scream at him again. I DO THIS AND IT IS SOOOOOOOOO POWERFUL . H continues to dig a hole for himself. He does more and more stupid things which ALL work in my favor. i will get a better settlement out of it, my kids are losing respect for their father, he does not have a hope in h$## of having his children accept this OW and I am coming of as the fabulous one, the bigger person.
He is frustrated at my lack of response or questions and it drives him to act irrationally. Do what you ahve to do to protect your kids but please dont buy into his tactics.
Do you think for 1 minute that he did not know you would react the way you did. Course he knew. He probably got some sick rush from it.
Please please keep your dignity. I have had so much pleasure from keeping mine.
I wish my H would move in with OW. Speeds up the whole crashing of his world. so your news a few weeks back , would of lifted my spirits.
