"I would love it if you come" is an invitation in my books. She is just pulling out stuff to give you a hard time.
Keep doing the 180s man, you can go dark later if necessary.
Assignment for you:
Write a list of things she is saying and doing that you don't like and/or disagree with.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
