That's good input. I appreciate the insight. It gives me pause while I consider talking with her and what I'll let her talk to me about. I can see that having a good converstation will help with more so with the possibility of getting us back together versus no or poor convo. So, thank you for you thoughts, that's what I like about this board. \:\)

M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!