Need Help handling affair thats still going on

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K
Sorry you find yourself here
there are no real answers except to try to take care of yourself and your kids
IF your H is in counseling that may be helpful, but like most of us here it is a long haul
If it is MLC, there is no easy way thru it
most of our H have A
most of them run through a lot if not all of the money
protect yourself fianacially espescially since the business is half yours
My xh almost bankrupted our business right before our D
by the grace of God, I was able to get my hands on it to save it
our H, most of them become messes
very distant, unemotional liers bad fathers
I wouldnt expect to much from him now
as far as what to do, you can try either way
I was upbeat non confrontitive with mine for a while right after bomb
that set us up for a friendship which we did have and helped him maintain R with kids
in that time he was loving with oW and lieing about it
Now I am dim and while it helps me to a degree, H is a mess
so you will have to make your own choice and moniter it
this is my opinion only
if its MLC, nothing you do will make them turn around
it is best to practice no pressure be kind and affirming that will keep the doors open
good luck
peace