What's next???? The adventure continues!!!

[AFWAW]

Holy cow!!! I'm not waiting 15 months! Hell, I'm not waiting 1 year! I have given myself 6 months. By that time I will have moved on or she will have to make a decision. I don't intend to live like a monk waiting for her to make a decision. If you add up the time I was in Iraq and training before that then you are looking at 14 months of time seperated. That's more than enough. If this is what she wants then she needs to make up her mind. Six months, then s&#@ or get off the pot. I'll be 40 this year and I hear that 40 is the new 30. I'm sure there are plenty of other fish in the sea. Is that what I want at this point? A BIG FAT NO!!! So, as Puppy put it so very eloquently, I will work on myself and stop trying to figure out the wife. I do have to protect myself emotionally though as apparently I thought this past week was a major breakthrough and it turned out not to be the case. Whew, that's a long time to be seperated--don't know that I could do it.