I used to see this equation on the boards and it may be a good rule of thumb for you. Figure one month of separation for every year married. Anything less than that consider a gift from God.
I know it seems impossible, but I am already down to two months shy of that number. DH is not even thinking about coming home yet, as far as I know. In addition, I have to deal with an OP. At least as far as you know, that is not muddying up your equation.
Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~ SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
