I will have to actually talk to her tomorrow night because we are both scheduled for an appointment with our kids counselor. So I will be on the speaker phone for that. But other than that, I can leave her alone.
What makes it hard to go completely dark is that at night I usually have to text her to get to talk to my kids on webcam. There schedule seems to differ alot. Then everytime we log on, she is always on it first. I inevitably end up having to talk to her before the kids get on. Its usually short though.
So the best I can do is just not contact her except for that. Half the time my kids don't have their cell phones with them. D7 managed to lose hers. D11 finally found hers. But doesn't always even hear it when I call. I always try to call them first. But then finally I text W so I can talk to them.
Again tonite, when the kids were talking to me, she inserted her own comments and telling them what to tell me about their day.
I am going to have to ask her to leave the room. But generally its on her computer in her room and she likes to get on the treadmill in her room while they are talking to me.
I do need to go dark and stick with it for once. Other than that situation to talk to my kids, I can do that. Tomorrow I will leave her alone other than our appointment when I need to be on the phone.
The rest of the week I won't have any real reason to talk to her so I can avoid her except at night if she gets on webcam first.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
