Hi Kev, Do you think your low PMA is due to spending time with your mum? Early on in my DB efforts I would get p*ssed if someone was not at least a bit open minded as to what & why I was trying to save my M. My mum p*ssed me off plenty of times. It seems like your W has a lot of crutches propping her up at the moment. Only time will tell how long that lasts.
Don't beat yourself up too much about your low PMA. Sometimes it's easier to detach & other times it's a challenge. We all understand that here, that's for sure.
So did you have a good time with wee man?
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)