She leaves the room and then goes to our room. I follow. AGAIN MY BAD! I tell her I don't want to get into another go no where I back and forth.
Then why the $&%# are you following her into the bedroom???!
W.O.M., she is button-pushing, pure and simple. She is nothing if not PREDICTABLE right now, and no one knows her better than YOU do. You need to do a better job of predicting what her words and actions are going to be, and practice ahead of time what you're going to do to NOT be reactive to them.
The words "I'm sorry you feel that way" and "I understand, you have to do what you feel you need to do" need to be your best friends right now.
