Do I cut her off? Or do I let her keep yanking me around? I know there's a fine line in there somewhere, I just don't know where it is and how long I can put up with this. It's too damn confusing and too damn frustrating especially when there seems to be no one else.
I'm right there with you AF, up ad down on the roller coaster. I start to think that it's becoming a battle of wills, and my W is going back and forth because she just doesn't want to be the one to call it quits, and is passive-aggressively hoping that I will get fed up with it all and throw in the towel. But I remain 100% committed to my vows and will not do that, so I think it frustrates her, causes her to be even more distant and cruel. However it turns out, I will always be able to tell my kids that I NEVER gave up on our family.
