Sounds like you have a good handle on things. Trying to figure out crazy behavior will drive you crazy, thats good you have the anlayzing thing in check.
Sounds like she is doing some thinking as well. Keep your guard up a bit still. Their mind tends to change like the wind.
You got the idea, the less she can place the reason for her feeling this way on you the better. Be patient, it's a marathon not a sprint.
