Karen, I wouldn't send it either, anyone else is not their father! Its not babysitting when they are your kids...
You both are right!!! And H also when he dropped off the kids dropped off a bag of dirty laundry (the kids). So you're right.
I have to say, this is weird, but H has seemed like a distant remote stranger or angry guy mostly the last 2 years. Today I saw a little glimpse of the old guy, which was weird. He was acting normal and seemed a little down. His car broke down and so maybe a little bit of reality for him. I'm also wondering if OW has realized the "prize" she has in H. You know what I mean, the balding, going through bankruptcy and foreclosure, and he's grown a beard the last couple weeks and it was straggly today. Can't wait what the L says about that tomorrow! I think in time he's probably going to regret our D more than me, so I oddly feel a little sad for him, but not too sad!!! Karen
Karen