I have to believe, that NO ONE leaves a M or a Relationship whithout having someone else at least "waiting"... That's why I am so pissed at my H for not admitting the affair...

Julia, you are so very pretty, so young and I know it may sound bad but there is a huge positive in all this, you are lucky you got the early exit out, imagine if you had kids etc... I was married before and divorced when I was 24, no kids. After going through what I went through the last couple of years (and still), that divorce seems so..."easy" and painless. Believe me, over time, you will be fine and happy with someone you get to choose with all this knowledge you have gained.
xxx
K


Me&H:42
S11&D10
Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007
Reconc.November 2009