Hi sugar,

Have you ever had a day when you havent had to climb a hill of one size or another? This hill is a big one, but you are an expert mountaineer by now.

Their grief over the OW is disgusting... But its totally normal, and its so important to remember that hes going through this because you are the one he wants to be with. And I feel like you are seeing action, just his efforts, no matter how tiny they seem to you are action. Not enough, I know! But it is something for now.

Dont settle for the back burner, if he does something that makes you feel bad, you do something that makes you feel good... By the way; kicking him or spitting in his coffee really wont make you feel good for long!


I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...