GFI, I was where you are a few months ago. Of course every sitch is different but for a few months we were amicable, co-parenting was without struggles and when I think about it now, no wonder all our friends were shocked we would give it another try, you see for them, things were settled into the divorce mode.
I think what changed that for my H was when I really started looking and feeling happy (for reasons he doesnt know) and started living a life on my own where I didnt leave many openings to allow him to peek. I was drifting away -too far away actually- and he felt it.
How are you with you wife these days? Does she know what you are doing when you dont have H? Do you share with her info about your life? Just and idea, if you do, maybe start being more mysterious a bit, you know, make her curious? K
