HSS, I don't know if your phone will do it, but I can assign different ring tone to people in my phone book. I changed my H's ring tone to silent... He sucks, so he doesnt get a ring tone. Or maybe you can just change the text notification to silent, if it upsets you then maybe taking away some of its power will help.

I'm sorry things are so hard right now, really, they will get easier.

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...