That would be better. I actually hope that he doesn't self destruct. I want the kids to have two healthy parents. He does not usually ask to talk to the kids when he calls.
Okay, I did a little backslide mistakeepoo and sent him a TM after we talked. It made me mad that he called and pretended to small talk just to ask about the taxes. He knows I am honest and will let him know when the money comes.
I sent him a message that said I know you just called to find out about the taxes. Don't worry, I will let you know when the money comes in. I will not try to take your half.
******oops, Bi*chy a little bit?
He sent back, That is just wrong I know you wouldn't do that I just need the money and I wanted to find out about the kids.
So I sucked it up and sent back - sorry if I insulted you- I was wrong Him: You know I want to see the kids more Me: That is up to you. You know you can come visit them any time and I feel that I have been plenty friendly to you. The End! Oh, well. I'll start climbing up from the backslide again.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
