Hey Ali, Your restaurant story is so cute! It is so nice to get some attention from a man isn't it??? Sometimes the innocent attention is the best!

Interesting news about your B. Yet, don't they say depressed WAS, usually go for someone who is also depressed & can wallow in their misery with them. Bad combination. At any rate good to see his fog lifting.

I've been reading the NUTS book, the men on here said was good. It is a big plus, that your B has a sane, sound man friend to lean on. Very good that he hasn't broken off contact with him & can confide in him.


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)