Well, have H today till school tomorrow - went over to pick him up with a few Mother's Day goodies - something he chose and a few things from me...

And even managed to plant a kiss to wish her Happy Mother's Day

Anyway we have badminton under our belt and now off to a BD party till 4...

I'm not sure how much more patience I have left, W is making no moves in my direction at all and I'm getting very frustrated about this whole sitch. At the same time I hurt for H.

It feels like time to try something different but I'm not sure what that is...on the other hand, keeping on doing what I'm doing might be the right thing - I just don't know. I do know change doesn't happen quickly but change here seems to be moving more slowly than a snail in reverse!

I suppose if I look at the positives that might help...W and I continue to co-parent well - more than amicably, she calls me to share frustrations about her job, asks for my opinion about things, asks for help (chimney).

Is that enough for now, am I doing too much work to make this sitch easy?

Just don't know...

Best to all - GFI