It's a bit of a loaded question so I stumbled over it a bit....I said that it hadn't occurred to me to ask (which was a pants answer in comparison to what K's answer would have been!). A lot of people assume we're together, I guess because they observe something in the interaction, but BFF issued the invite and she wouldn't assume (even though she's wanted us to get together from the moment I met him).
So I've been thinking a bit about the D and I've decided that if H doesn't send me the info I need by the end of this week I'll get the papers sent without naming her. D is D in the end, I suppose. Still, it's frustrating to have to think about it so much- I do think H should try and make it easy for me rather than making it a hassle. On the other hand, I guess he doesn't realise it's a pain for me to have to wait given how long it's been already. BTW, he did stand up to his Mum on Friday, although I think he found it hard. He sent me a nice message to thank me for listening to him talk about it anyway, which was sweet.
CEO sent me an e-mail at 6:20 this morning- a forward of a message he'd received but with a self-deprecating joke he'd added referring to something I'd teased him about on Friday. I'd like to think he woke up and thought of me, but no doubt he woke up and was thinking of work. I, on the other hand, woke up furious with him, having had a dream that he was flirting with an unknown girl from down the corridor. LOL!
