Hi Ali,

Assuming you want to date.......You should have - given him your number \:\) Or even better ask if he would like to exchange numbers that way the pressure is off. If he says yes it gives you the opportunity to be aggressive and call him.

It must be a huge number.... the number of people that don't ever contact each other because we are afraid to reach out. It's funny how many females I have been attracted to in life and not apporached only to find out later that they wished I would have...crazy???? I as a man struggle sometimes reading the silent hints that women think are obvious.. Takes a 2X4 sometimes LOL!

I will tell you though (guy thing here)unless he was from far away (just in town for the day) - if he was into you, he will come back in to the resturant. It may be for dinner or it could be for something as crazy as change for a dollar, But he will drop back in to see if you are working. There is a classic scene in Fast Times at Ridgemont High, where two guys are talking. "what about the girl at the fotomat store last summer? You must have spent a hundred dollars on film and you don't even own a camera!"

If he was a shy guy afraid of rejection..... he'll be back LOL!


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