It was a good day with my buddy and his family

We went to a kids interactive science museum and then the park. All the kids had a lot of fun

We had a good lunch (pizza with beer and apple juice). We got home about 3 hours after my 3 year old's nap time. I laid down with him to settle him for a nap (the other kids were playing so I didn't want him to feel left out). We both wound up taking a 2 hour nap (a first for me in years).

The kids played together nicely and we had a great dinner.

I wound up shooting pool with my buddy till 2AM while we talked a little about my situation but mostly laughing/joking about our past. It was great talking about the "simplier" times in High School and College - before things went crazy with work and then marriage/family

The only tough part of the evening was my wife sent me a photo at 1:30 AM of her martini with olives arranged like a p*nis with a caption of "When bad things happen to good martinis"

No idea what to make of that. I wanted to call/text her to find out what was going on but I didn't. I'm sure the right move is to ignore it but I do reaaly want to call her. I'm sure no good will come of a call though

It was a great day with a bizare end to the evening

Any thoughts?


Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13