I spent all day Friday being trained in another energy form of care and then picked up my college roommate. We spent today overhauling the kitchen (refrigerator included), clearing out and reorganizing the garage (huge job!) steadily filling up the dumpster. We went at it with only 3 breaks. I am sore, tired and thankfully showered! Choir is early mass tomorrow.. ugh.
As we were working in the garage, I realized ex and I never did tasks like that together. We might start, but after 30 - 45 minutes ex was done, tired, needed to sit down. It's like waking up to what I missed.. those simple things of sharing chores and working together even if it was a pain in the patookie. I'm looking forward to someday perhaps having that feeling with another. It's yet another thing I'm learning I desire in a relationship.
The dancing has gone by the wayside for some reason, Giovanni. I was pretty spooked after that last arousing dance and then the subsequent coffee/dinner outing. Instead of being fun at the dance, it was more of a meat market feel.
Right now I'm getting real satisfaction volunteering.
