Short of a miracle I cannot see how a few well chosen phrases is going to put this back together but then we all walk our own path.
I hope the week end bring you some peace and joy.
Matilda and Naej, I just came back from three hours of ballroom dancing in a real ballroom. I was like a kid in a candy star. There were so many ladies eager to dance. All I had do to was ask. I've never danced so much in one night before.
I think Naej is right, and the writing is on the wall for this M. I don't think my W has the potential to turn things around. I think her patterns are too entrenched. She may surprise me at the last minute, but it would be a 180 for her to acknowledge her issues and work on the M, instead of saying and acting how she wants, and still expecting me to be a H.
Matilda, She is probably is too self-centered to think about how her actions affect me. Frankly, I am not interested in connecting the dots for her. It would create a nonconstructive conversation. She is too defensive to think about how her behavior may affect others.
I'm having such a wonderful time being single (no dating) that my W is going to have a hard time selling reconciliation, if and when the time comes.
I think GAL is accomplishing what it's supposed to do as a DB strategy. This is how I'm supposed to feel in life and in a M. I'm not going to back to unhappy CL, in that dysfunctional M.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
