LD, my brother, I havent' forgotten nor ignored you. Just kind of hanging back in my realm and dealing with things. I will say if you get to the "big D", the pain you have felt so far is marginal in comparison. Hell, I can't even post in the "surving the big D" forum, the pain and confusion is astronomical from my vantage point.

Keep a chin up and be strong, PLEASE, you don't want to be where I am because I was weak.

Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11