So, if you read my other thread, you know that I forced my husband to go to a not so great long, loud, dark, bellydance event tonight, with pretty poor food. He doesn't mind going to bellydance events with beautiful sexy bellydancers and good food. In fact, that is his idea of a good time. But this wasn't it. Now he is mad at me, and I am hiding in the study.
so, the question is....what did I learn at Retrouvaille that will help me with this situation?
I told him to go ahead and say whatever he wanted to say about the bad saturday night. He did, a little. But he said he didn't want to talk about it. So that makes two of us. Do we need to open up and talk about our feelings on this? Or can we sweep it under the rug? Does anything ever go under that rug and not pop up like a broken bedspring right under your hip when you are trying to sleep? Can I take the chance? I just don't know.
