Hey all, I will respond to your posts soon, but first I could use some advice.
My s8 told me tonight that S5 sleeps with JA and ow when he can't fall asleep.
S5 confirmed this.
I had previously told my kids that I did not want them lying in bed with the ow, but it was ok if it was just Daddy.
My L at one time even wrote JA's lawyer to immediately put a stop to S5 sharing a bed with him and ow and that it was totally inappropriate.
The behavior stopped for awhile, but I found out tonight it's been happening again for awhile now.
My L had told me that I could take him to family court when the divorce is done and they would probably put a stop to overnight visits if he does not abide by the rule that S5 must not share a bed with them.
I am very upset that he is sharing a bed with them. Am I over-reacting? I just find it morally wrong since ow and JA are not married and that they are living together but to allow S5 to share their bed with them has my blood boiled.
My thinking is that I need to protect my kids. So the logical thing to do would be to take him to family court. But you all know JA and how he is vindictive. Will I be opening up a whole other can of worms? He loves to get back at me and I am afraid of the consequeces if I do take him to court.
Should I just let this slide? Maybe I will be doing more damage to the kids in the long run? I don't know. Help, I am lost!
