I cannot picture ever getting back together with him at this point. I have higher expectations that his behavior would just not fit into. I feel really hopeful about the future for myself and my kids. I have grown through this and he has not. A couple of months ago, I would have let him come back. I don't think it would have lasted, but I would have. Now, I would not.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher