I think we need a new abbreviation............ An ND spouse, which of course is a NO DRIVE spouse. I agree with Q in the respect that I think Mrs Cinco very much falls into that catagory. And what I have also learned, is that there is NOTHING wrong with them. I do believe I live with one. Hes happy as a clam as long as you don't ask for sex. Hell, he even LOVES it every so often ( yearly ) But is perfectly content to stay that way.
However, that's for you to figure out Cinco, and I'm thinking that while you read this, you already know. I think I have known, but didn't want to face it. Because then it left me with a HUGE decision. Because NOW what I have to decide is it worth all this to still end up with someone who does not desire like I do.