All I can advise you is to remain strong, and continue to stand up for what YOU need out of the relationship: your needs ARE valid, worthwhile, and very normal -- don't guilt yourself into thinking otherwise.

You're in our prayers,

Bagheera
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I think I have read this about a 100 times along with a few other comments from Bagheera and others. Thanks for bearing with me.

Suffice to say I am somewhat at an impass. I've been trying to figure out something to send to my H, but I can't bring myself too because I think it's all been said just in different way. I think I have also told myself too many times that " this " is the last time. etc..............

Nevertheless, I am and will send something soon. I just feel like I have to, or I owe it to both of us.

( update u all later on what I come up with )


anyone want to write it... ;\) lol Oh my...

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