Unfortunatly that is not an option for me. My H use to be a great guy. That is why I fell in love with him and married him. I just wish I had that guy back. I feel that the longer that we are married the more he feels that I owe him for the money that he has spent, the things that he buys, the things that he has done. I get reminded that when he met me, I was living in a mobile home with my two girls, no driver's license, had a dead end job, and bills that we long over due and some that were still mounting. Now look at what I have, large house in country, agreage, a good job, my driver's license, all past bills paid and have been able to keep up on monthly bills...blah, blah, blah....
Oh well I have been doing some emotional and soal searchijng this past couple of days. I am just going to take care of whats mine. I am going to dive head first into some projects that I have started but not finished. I am going to spend time doing what I want to do and having fun with my girls. It is my weekend for one of my daughters(she goes every other weekend) and unexpectedly I have my other daughter this weekend too (she goes 3 weeks out of the month and I get to pick one weekend to keep her). So I have decided that I am going to take them out for supper somewhere and then we are going to go bowling. Something that they have never done before and I think we will have a blast. I will invite my H to go along with us but if he want to be a bump on the couch then we will go with out him this time. No reason we have to stay home just because he wants to.
Thanks for the advise SoConfused. I wish it were that simple but it is not. I see by your signature that you stitch has gotten worse. I will keep you in my mind.
Me-31 Him-28 D1-9 D2-6 Married 5-06 Seperated 12-07 He filed 1-08 Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08 Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09 Filed for D 4-28-09 Trying to make a go of it 6-09
