Thanks guys. I appreciate the support. I am trying the 180 and last resort techniques and have seen some subtle signs that it is having an effect. What do you do about family events that you feel like you should be attending, not super important ones, but like dinner and getting the cousins together to play. Because my 180 involves spending a lot more time with the kids, I am trying to insist on being there. Our relatives make me feel welcome, so that is not the issue. My wife says that it will ruin her day if I am there and I also need to give her a lot of space as a part of my pull back. Any thoughts??
