Patience patience, give it time, keep looking at yourself, not her.
Some people here would give their right arm to be at the stage you are at.
I would give more than that. The fact that she is willing to date and will kiss and hug probably means that she still has feelings in there and is trying. My W has no feelings for me, also says that she realized she was never that in love or into me, and therefore sees no reason to try to rekindle something that was wrong in the first place.
