I forgot to say that like already mentioned, you have to change it up so the arguments stop. Validate her feelings and stop anypressure/pursuing. My W was pushing for one us to move out before too. But partially due to circumstances and the fact we don't argue and I don't try to pursue anymore, we are still in the same household. It doesn't seem like our R is any better, but delaying that next step is still seen as a gain to me. Though it does make it harder to not think about the R, at least maybe it allows time for her to let the changes I have made sink in.
