Hi Cyrena,
Hope you had a good March break with the kids.

I had a call yesterday from my L. He said you are no longer Mrs. xh's given name xh's surname. What an idiot! I never changed my name and was NEVER addressed, not even once, by my xh's name before! Then he started jabbering about it being signed on March 17th but waiting 31 days from then so I am not entirely sure if I am divorced as of March 17th or will be as of April 18th. I'll have to wait until I receive the decree in the mail to be sure. I hope it's not March 17th as I am fond of St. Patrick's Day.

To answer your question above, I don't think I am depressed. I know that I am lonely and that I am bored spending my evenings and weekends alone.